How to turn-on your partner, with the four sexual initiation styles. While we all may appreciate different ways to start sex, most of us get turned on by a 1 or 2 styles more than others. Knowing your partner's preferred style is a sure-fire way to open engage your erotic brain when you are with [...]
The most popular ways women (and men) want to be approached for sex. We are very different when it comes to how we want to start a sexual encounter. To understand this crucial make-or-break initiating moment we asked 500 people their initiation preferences. 400 women and 100 men in N. America answered a questionnaire online [...]
Doing Sexual Initiation Well You may inadvertently be turning your partner off with an initiation strategy that doesn’t work for them. If you want more sex but don’t know the best way to approach your partner for sex, here are the top sexual initiation tips to know how to initiate sex with your individual partner. [...]
No orgasm sex, as a goal! "What's the point?" is the question I will get when I first mention this as an exercise. This is only for 30 min, and you can do whatever you like at minute 31, is my response. This challenge started with the 30-min oral sex challenge I started using in [...]
Why can't my partner just "take charge" in bed? This is the question too many women (and men) ask when they come looking for help to improve their sagging sex lives. The first step is to fully understand what they mean by "taking charge." After a bit of probing this phrase is often a common [...]
1. Sex is too infrequent How often is by far the most common reason couples argue about sex. Whether there is a desire for more or for less, this issue usually comes along with blaming your partner for the difference in desire. Most people have an idea of what they consider is the "normal" or [...]
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What disastrous strategy are couples using for sex? Silence. And this self-imposed hush around "our sex life" is keeping us from getting what we want sexually and is distancing us from our partners. Carrie and John started out hot and heavy, spending hours touching and talking. Every graze of skin felt arousing. But ever since [...]
Regular Article Sexual Desire: Factors associated with high sexual desire in women and men. Dr. Petra Zebroff Abstract Objectives: Low sexual desire is a common complaint for many men and women, especially in long-term relationships. Low desire in women has become of particular focus with low desire reported more in women than men. [...]