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Tips to handle sexual rejection (well)

Being turned down for sex can feel awful. Especially when it is coming from the person we care about most. Because this moment is inevitable and common (50% of sexual initiations in long-term relationships) it pays to do it well. Here are some tips:

1. Ask your partner to say “no” to sex with care.

Not […]

By |October 7th, 2021|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Sexual Initiation and COVID-19

How sex starts, sexual initiation is a crucial step in determining whether sex happens or not.

Research tells us that the frequency of sex (in established couples) can decrease with proximity or increase with opportunity. This study looked at sexual initiation in the time of social isolation to see whether the frequency of sexual […]

By |December 16th, 2020|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Orgasm Techniques:

2500 women describe how they “get over the edge” to orgasm

Too many women are having trouble reaching orgasm, but only when with a partner. Women only orgasm one time for every three times men orgasm. When women are on their own it is a different story. This discrepancy prompted us to find out […]

Power-Play Initiation Style

If Your Initiation Style is:  Power-Play
(* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

Playing with power is the way this type accesses their arousal. Most sexual arousal comes from the thought of being overwhelmed or […]

Sensual-Touch Initiation Style

If Your Initiation Style is:  Sensual-Touch
(* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

The Sensual-Touch Initiation type is the ’embodiment’ of sex. You derive most of your erotic arousal from the senses. The physical sensations […]

Provocative-Seduction Initiation Style

If Your Initiation Type is:  Provocative-Seduction
(* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

The ‘sex-pot’ of the arousal types. Do me! The Provocative-Seduction Initiation Type gets their main erotic buzz from the game of feeling […]

Sex-Talk Initiation Style

Inside the head of the Initiation Style:  Sex-Talk

(* While each person has a complex mix of preferences, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

The Sex-Talk Initiation Type connects to their sexual arousal with words.  But not every word, only words that are sexual in content. […]

Emo-Connection Sexual Initiation Style

Inside the head of the Initiation Style: Emotional-Connection

(* While each person has a complex mix of preferences, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

The Emotional-Connection Initiation Type (aka “Intimate) comes the closest to the pure lover-connection. Sharing thoughts and feelings and having that connected feeling […]

Tips to Turn-on the 5 Sexual Initiation Styles

How to turn-on your partner, with the five sexual initiation styles.
While we all may appreciate different ways to start sex, most of us get turned on by a 1 or 2 styles more than others.  Knowing your partner’s preferred style is a sure-fire way to get to more sexual satisfaction.  Here are some tips […]

Sexual Initiation: How 500 women (and men) prefer their partner initiated sex

The most popular ways women (and men) want to be approached for sex.
We are very different when it comes to how we want to start a sexual encounter. To understand this crucial make-or-break initiating moment we asked 500 people their initiation preferences.

400 women and 100 men in N. America answered a questionnaire online about […]