What Women Are “Missing Out On” Sexually? More on the Orgasm Gap

Orgasm FOMO: What women are “missing out" on in sex “Orgasm happens very infrequently, while my partners often seem very satisfied after sex, I am often frustrated and sometimes I find myself crying.” ~ a woman in her 30s. Recently I asked over 2000 people if felt they were “missing out on the sex other [...]

By |2022-07-28T17:54:18+00:00July 3rd, 2020|Comments Off on What Women Are “Missing Out On” Sexually? More on the Orgasm Gap

What are your erotic cues for orgasm?

Welcome to the Erotic Cues for Orgasm Quiz! Do you know what spurs you over the edge into a delicious orgasm? Are you different from your partner? Knowing which erotic cues that allow you to reach orgasm can provide you the necessary insight to tap into your arousal when you want it, and allow you [...]

By |2022-07-28T19:53:18+00:00January 7th, 2020|0 Comments

What does an orgasm feel like — to different women

What does an orgasm “feel” like to a woman? New research reflects what women have been saying for years, orgasm from clitoral (external) stimulation feels completely different than an orgasm originating from vaginal intercourse. And different from anal intercourse, for that matter. Women are amazing in their capacity to experience pleasure! And now the fMRIs [...]

By |2022-07-28T19:55:34+00:00January 16th, 2018|0 Comments

Four Types of Orgasm, four women describe theirs

Orgasm is a different experience for every person. While there are endless ways to experience pleasure, there are four distinct ways that women talk about their orgasms. We asked four women to describe their orgasms. Here is what they said! Clitoral Cervical/Vaginal Anal G-Spot JENNI Focused in genitals, intense. Diffuse, overall body pleasure. Taboo, almost [...]

By |2022-07-28T19:51:26+00:00January 16th, 2018|0 Comments

30 min Oral Sex Pleasure Challenge

30 Minute Pleasure Challenge Take turns giving/receiving oral (and manual) pleasure from your partner for 30 min (timed) without the goal or orgasm. This exercise allows both of you to relax into the experience of oral (or manual) sex without the pressures of orgasm. It is designed to create an atmosphere that: takes the pressure [...]

By |2022-07-28T19:54:27+00:00March 21st, 2017|0 Comments

Directed Masturbation for Women

What is directed masturbation? Directed masturbation is a step-by-step exercise used to help keep erotic focus during masturbation. When arousal feels too low, or you are having trouble getting enough arousal to reach orgasm one of the only treatments that has had consistent results to increase arousal and reach orgasm is directed masturbation. Directed masturbation [...]

By |2022-07-28T20:57:55+00:00August 6th, 2015|0 Comments

Tips for Body Spectatoring: How body image affects sexuality

How does body image affect sexuality? Do you change your position during sex in order to "look" better to your partner? Are you having trouble reaching orgasm, or getting aroused?  You may be "spectatoring", the act of monitoring yourself during the sexual act, instead of being in the sensations of it. Take the test. Here [...]

By |2022-03-30T10:52:26+00:00April 22nd, 2014|0 Comments

Tips to Enhance Erotic Flexibility

How to have great sex in long-term relationships? One of the most important components of "great sex" is going with the moment and being open to different ways of doing sex: Erotic Flexibility. Being flexible in your erotic life can be an important key to  sexual satisfaction.  But changing old  and stable patterns to get [...]

By |2022-03-30T10:52:26+00:00August 5th, 2013|0 Comments

How to Orgasm with a Partner

Do you Orgasm with your Partner Present? If you don't orgasm with a partner present, you are not alone.  But it can be done. “I love my man. I love connecting with him, feeling his body against mine, seeing his pleasure, but his hopeful gaze in the bedroom, searching, waiting for me to orgasm is [...]

By |2022-03-30T10:52:26+00:00July 30th, 2013|0 Comments