Tips to handle sexual rejection (well)

Being turned down for sex can feel awful. Especially when it is coming from the person we care about most. Because this moment is inevitable and common (50% of sexual initiations in long-term relationships) it pays to do it well. Here are some tips:

1. Ask your partner to say “no” to sex with care.

Not […]

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Sexual Initiation and COVID-19

How sex starts, sexual initiation is a crucial step in determining whether sex happens or not.

Research tells us that the frequency of sex (in established couples) can decrease with proximity or increase with opportunity. This study looked at sexual initiation in the time of social isolation to see whether the frequency of sexual […]

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Orgasm Techniques:

2500 women describe how they “get over the edge” to orgasm

Too many women are having trouble reaching orgasm, but only when with a partner. Women only orgasm one time for every three times men orgasm. When women are on their own it is a different story. This discrepancy prompted us to find out […]

Sensual-Touch Initiation Style

If Your Initiation Style is:  Sensual-Touch
(* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

The Sensual-Touch Initiation type is the ’embodiment’ of sex. You derive most of your erotic arousal from the senses. The physical sensations […]

Tips to Turn-on the 5 Sexual Initiation Styles

How to turn-on your partner, with the five sexual initiation styles.
While we all may appreciate different ways to start sex, most of us get turned on by a 1 or 2 styles more than others.  Knowing your partner’s preferred style is a sure-fire way to get to more sexual satisfaction.  Here are some tips […]

Sexual Initiation: How 500 women (and men) prefer their partner initiated sex

The most popular ways women (and men) want to be approached for sex.
We are very different when it comes to how we want to start a sexual encounter. To understand this crucial make-or-break initiating moment we asked 500 people their initiation preferences.

400 women and 100 men in N. America answered a questionnaire online about […]

How to initiate sex with your partner: Practical tips from a sex therapist.

Doing Sexual Initiation Well

You may inadvertently be turning your partner off with an initiation strategy that doesn’t work for them.

If you want more sex but don’t know the best way to approach your partner for sex, here are the top sexual initiation tips to know how to initiate sex with your individual partner.

Your initiation […]

Waiting for your partner to “take charge” in bed

Why can’t my partner just “take charge” in bed?

This is the question too many women (and men) ask when they come looking for help to improve their sagging sex lives.  The first step is to fully understand what they mean by “taking charge.”  After a bit of probing this phrase is often a common […]

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The 5 most common reasons couples argue about sex

1. Sex is too infrequent
How often is by far the most common reason couples argue about sex. Whether there is a desire for more or for less, this issue usually comes along with blaming your partner for the difference in desire. Most people have an idea of what they consider is the “normal” or […]

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