Orgasm Checklist: What is an orgasm? Are you unsure about what an orgasm feels like? Or if you have ever had one? Women are lucky to be able to enjoy a variety of different types of orgasm. But because they differ in intensity and sensation, they can be difficult to define as orgasm. How can [...]
The Mystery of Female Ejaculate We are all pretty used to male ejaculate (aka “cum”). Female ejaculate, however, is another story. Men see their own on a regular basis, at the moment of orgasm or on their partner's body after sex or a sock/towel after masturbation. Women often see male ejaculate during oral sex or somewhere [...]
Difficult to Please: When He Can't Come A woman's experience of delayed ejaculation. Women like it when intercourse goes on and on. Don’t they? The short answer is that women do need some ramp up time for sex. But the reality is that a woman’s body can take only so many thrusts before it [...]
What is the treatment for delayed ejaculation? Delayed ejaculation is a silent killer of many men’s (and couple’s) sex lives. And it is getting worse. Younger men especially complain of this problem (see causes of delayed ejaculation). Because there are many different causes for delayed ejaculation, there is no one delayed ejaculation treatment. Before we [...]
Why Can't I Ejaculate? The 9 Causes of Delayed Ejaculation Most men experiencing delayed ejaculation can reach orgasm during masturbation, but what defines DE is the inability to have org in the presence of a partner. In its mildest form, DE is identified by a difficulty in reaching orgasm after long periods of thrusting, oral or [...]
Pay Attention to Your Genitals, Ladies! -- Clitoris,Vulva and Vagina Women are not as in touch with their genitals as men are. As a result sex can seem more ‘removed’ for women. Why? Simple anatomy tells us why women end up paying less attention to their genitals than men. The clitoris (the analogous orgasm [...]
Why multi-tasking during sex is a bad idea By Petra Zebroff, Ph.D. Multi-tasking equals efficiency! Doesn’t it? Not when it comes to sexual satisfaction. Why can’t we have rapturous orgasms while simultaneously adding another item to our shopping list, mentally scheduling a dentist appointment or replaying your near car accident? Sex pleasure requires undivided [...]
Solutions for sex and antidepressants Getting rid of Depression = getting rid of Sex? Alas, that is the trade-off many people who take antidepressants have to make, in order to feel happier. No matter which one you choose — you lose. Sexual side effects of antidepressants are difficult to avoid. Cathy certainly felt that way. After [...]