There are some porn that avoids most myths and shows real & “hot” sex. If you would like to watch real sex in porn that does not buy into the porn myths that are so common on traditional porn sites. Instead these sites offer a better model of sex that is more realistic, sensual, inclusive of real female pleasure and sexual scenarios.
Search terms to find real sex: To get started, try searching for terms such as “feminist porn” or “porn for women.” Here are some more places to look…
Written Erotica
While “erotica” can be any representation of the erotic, it usually refers to the written word. Some authors to watch out for to inspire hot and real sex are:
Literotica: This erotica site has been around forever with a huge repository of the hottest erotic stories written by a variety of authors.
Dipsea Stories: Audible for erotica. Free 7 day trial. After that $5/month.
“Our stories open up space for you to explore your desires and fantasies on your terms. If your intuition whispered “yes” to that, you’re in the right place.”
‘Real Sex’ Porn that is free
Bellesea having the most variety in this area that doesn’t require a credit card.
Credited with real orgasms, uncut (longer) scenes, &. The clips are approximately 12 minutes in length and are easy to search for what you are looking for. This was the closest we could find that gives the greatest variety, and some wonderful sensual videos were found (and enjoyed). So, while one of the better ones for understanding female-focused pleasure, the performers are still impossibly perfect, and several realities of sex (eg. anal sex/dp is easy, fast and doesn’t take preparation) were still misrepresented.
‘Real Sex’ Porn that you pay for
These tend to have a more educational, how-to feel. Excellent for couples
Afterglow: This porn site is “porn by women for everyone”
Make Love Not Porn:
I loved this site. It is positive, permission-giving, human sex from humans. This site features “real” couples. Free access to previews if you sign up (name and email) with a promise of being legal age. If you want to watch the videos in their entirety you will pay $10 per month (for 5 videos).
This site is user-generated, human-curated social sex platform describing itself as, “We are not porn—porn is performance (often an exceedingly delicious performance, but a performance nonetheless),” its website reads. “We are not ‘amateur’—a label that implies that the only people doing it right are the professionals and the rest of us are bumbling idiots. (Honey, please.)”
Dane Jones: These videos focus on more romantic and sensual porn. The videos feel very slick and porn-starry. Most videos require payment, but some are free. $10-30/month.
Nofauxxx (Indie Porn Revolution): Real people, wide variety of all types of sex. $30/month (USD)
Very real porn and one of the oldest running queer porn site, including alt, gay, lesbian, straight, trans, kink, and BBW content. It’s sexy, artsy, entertaining and inclusive.
Bright Desire: Feminist porn that is truly erotic. A little cumbersome to join. $15 /month ($30 first month)
“This site offers a vibrant and different kind of porn – what I call smart porn. The aim is to move beyond the old cliches, boundaries and negativity of standard, old-style pornography and to offer something fresh, inclusive and intelligent.”
Spit: Queer, kinky porn, erotica and photos. Content is ethically developed dedicated to creating consensual, equitable, and intersectional feminist spaces in the sex industry. $20/month
Adult Time: $12 – 19/month.
“Award-Winning adult movies and series”
Ersties: German site of porn made for women by women. With an annual membership $11/month.
“Ersties is all about 100% real girls experiencing 100% real intimate moments.”
‘Real Sex’ Porn Videos to Watch out for
Crash pad series: Stream the videos for $10/month +. Wonderfully real people.
Erika Lust videos: Feminist porn made most by women. $11.5/month
The problem with all of this great porn is that it is requires complicated, info-disclosing logins, such as credit cards. In comparison Pornhub makes it too easy to go to and find something intriguing.
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