Primary Intimate
(While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)
The Intimate type comes the closest to a lover-connection during sex.
Feeling connected to a lover is the primary driver of your arousal. Your erotic charge increases with the feeling of being connected. You seek to merge (even only for a moment), to become one with your partner. It is this ‘in synch’ feeling that surpasses the boundaries between you and your lover. One of the main pleasures for you is sharing your pleasure with your partner.
- Sexual style: You love to give pleasure to your partner as much as you do to get it.
- Favorite sexual starter: A deep intimate conversation or meaningful eye-gaze.
- Partners: The ideal partner of an intimate type has a good sense of themselves with clear boundaries.
- Turn-offs: A typical turn-off of an intimate would be to be a distant lover, someone who withholds connection.
The Intimate Type craves closeness. While every type experiences this a little bit at the beginning of a new relationship, the Intimate Type continues to be driven by ‘bonding’ even after that ‘in-love’ feeling is gone.
The Intimate Sexual Arousal Type’s erotic energy is focused on a “person”. They can be happy doing many sexual acts, as long as they are connected with their lover.
Are you partnered with an Intimate?
Tips on how to have great sex with an Intimate type
The Intimacy Type needs to feel connected (or the potential to be connected) to feel an erotic charge. Share a conversation, favorite activity or an event. Rejection is a sure-fire way to turn this type off.
Best tools to enhance the Intimate Arousal type
I have put together a list of products recommended for you or your partner to enhance the arousal and orgasm potential in an Intimate Sexual Arousal Type.
1. Made for Two
These couples vibrators allow you to gaze into your lover’s eyes while you get the clitoral stimulation and vibration you need to reach orgasm.
2. Share the experience.
Remote controlled toys allow one partner to control the vibrations of their lover.
3. Hands-free pleasure
An Intimate doesn’t want to be distracted from the connection with their lover. Wearable toys allow the Intimate to focus on what is most important to them. 
Wearable Vibrators for Her (to wear)
Find in the United States: Wearable Vibrators
Wearable Toys for Him (to wear)
Find in the US: Vibrating cock-rings
For a more in-depth analysis of your (and your partners) Arousal Type, and how they fit together, email Dr. Petra Zebroff at info@isu.wjc.mybluehost.me
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