Primary Attractor Arousal Type
(While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)
The ‘sex-pot’ of the arousal types. You get your main erotic buzz from your partner’s desire for you.
There is no bigger aphrodisiac than being seen as sexy. Dressing up is an arousing activity with a common fantasy that your partner is overwhelmed with desire for you. Your eroticism is enhanced by passion and intensity of the interaction with your lover.
Your erotic style: A faster, more intense pace can be a turn on for an Attractor, where their lover is pushing their sexual boundaries.
Starter: Attractors can feel sexy from a mere admiring look or comment. Seeing their partner’s approval of their sexiness gets their juices flowing.
Partners: The Attractor looks for those lovers who will appreciate their sex appeal.
Turn-offs: A big turn-off for the Attractor is being ignored or having their sexual advanced rebuffed.
Attractors love to feel sexy!
The Attractor Type gets their erotic buzz from their partner’s passion for them. It is important to them that their partner desires them and be a part of their partner’s sexuality. They get “hot” when they feel that they are seen as sexy and alluring.
This type is not reserved for women either. While more women tend to be Attractors, approximately one fifth of all men fall into this type.
Are you partnered with an Attractor Type?
Tips to understand an Attractor
Admire, adore, and “see” your partner. Take time to appreciate the effort she/he has gone to in order to arouse you. Let her/him know what it is that turns you one about them.
Best Tools for the Attractor Type
These products are recommended for you or your partner to enhance the arousal and orgasm potential in an Attractor.
1. Sexy Toys
The best toys for an Attractor are that that will increase their feelings of sexiness or that will show them off as the true sex gods/goddesses that they are.
2. Sexy Lingerie:
Sexy underwear can go a long way to being adored and drueled over. A fishnet stocking for a woman, a sexy pair of underwear for men.
3. Flirty Restraints
Power plays a role with the Attractor. Being restrained can be a huge turn on for this type.
Or, for a more in-depth analysis of your (and your partners) Arousal Type, and how they fit together, email Dr. Petra Zebroff at info@isu.wjc.mybluehost.me
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