A real account of what female ejaculation FEELS like
An “Eker’s” Story: 42 year old Janie talks about what it is like to female ejaculate
(read the “Gusher’s Story”)
I never knew I ejaculated, until I started to pay attention. I had only seen images where women “gushed” ejaculate all over the place. I knew I wasn’t experiencing that, so I just thought I wasn’t ejaculating at all. I didn’t realize I was “eeking” out ejaculate too, just differently from them.
I never felt a pressure to ejaculate. Actually, I never felt one way or another about female ejacultion. It was fine for other women. Since G-Spot stimulation is not my favorite feeling, and everything I read said that g-spot stimulation is the sure-fire route to female ejaculation, I was not compelled to try it.
But then I realized that something else was coming out of me precisely when I had an orgasm. And whatever it was, it wasn’t coming out of my vagina. I always thought that my vagina go wetter with orgasm.
The build up to ejaculation
The build up towards ejaculation comes from clitoral stimulation. It may be that is the only time I would notice it. My hands are right there, and feel moisture when am masturbating. The build up is similar to a clitoral orgasm – rythmic massaging of my clit and labia while I think of sexy fantasies (or watch porn). It all feels like a “normal” orgasm.
Type of Stimulation
While clitoral stimulation is what I know brings on this small amount of ejaculate, it also happens when I am really aroused with my partner and he is stimulating my g-spot with his penis — fast and hard. So little that comes out that it is hard to find the evidence. But I think I do, because I can feel that similar (ejaculating) sensation, only with a partner that feeling is even more intense.
What it feels like
It is hard to describe this sensation. It feels like a regular (clitoral) orgasm, very intense and focused in the genitals. It builds gradually with rythmic movements and coincides with how horny my mind is. The difference I have noticed when I ejaculate from when I don’t is an intensity. It becomes even more focused into one spot (deeper under the clitoris). But there is something more, the feeling feels like peeing a little bit. But I know that I am not.
What the ejaculate is like
The ejaculate looks nothing like pee. It is thicker, whitish and a little bit sticky. It is thicker than my natural lube. It doesn’t smell like anything at all. Never really, not even when I eat different things (as others have said). Partner’s Reaction: It is a little frustrating, because my partner has never seen it. Sometimes I wonder if they believe me. But because they are not usually around during masturbation, and it is hard to tease out the different fluids with partnered sex, they don’t really partake in the experience.
Holding it back
I’ve never even tried to hold it back, if I am honest. I’m not sure why I would. Afterward: I now pay attention to every time I orgasm and look at my hand to (somehow proudly) find the ejaculate. If I don’t find it for some reason, I am not disappointed either.
Recommendations
Just because you are not gushing huge amounts (read the gusher’s account here), does not mean you are not having your version of an orgasm.
Summary:
This has been a very cool discovery, not because I want to ejaculate, but because I didn’t know that I did. I feel like I know my body that much more. It adds to the wonderful complexity of orgasm.
I don’t have to worry about the mess like “gushers”. This type of female ejaculation gets underplayed, and I believe many more women fit into this category than we know.
Read more: What female ejaculation feels like. Part 1 A “Gusher’s Story”
Learn: How to Female Ejaculate
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