1. Sex is too infrequent
How often is by far the most common reason couples argue about sex. Whether there is a desire for more or for less, this issue usually comes along with blaming your partner for the difference in desire. Most people have an idea of what they consider is the “normal” or […]
1. Sex is too infrequent
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What disastrous strategy are couples using for sex? Silence. And this self-imposed hush around “our sex life” is keeping us from getting what we want sexually and is distancing us from our partners.
Carrie and John started out hot and heavy, spending hours touching and talking. Every graze of skin felt arousing. But ever since […]
Sexual Desire: Factors associated with high sexual desire in women and men.
Dr. Petra Zebroff
Low sexual desire is a common complaint for many men and women, especially in long-term relationships. Low desire in women has become of particular focus with low desire reported more in women than men. This survey focused on women (and […]
The Pace of Sex: Individual preferences for the frequency of Faster vs. Slower sexual behavior
The pace of sex is one component of the sexual experience vital in building sexual arousal and for reaching orgasm. Controlling the speed of thrusting (in intercourse) has been found to increase orgasm potential in women, aid in […]
Fast or slow sex, what pace means to your sex life
As our world continues to speed up, the time for sex just doesn’t seem to be there. And when we do make the time, are we rushing through it? What does that pace mean for our sex life?
“I like sex fast and hard, my […]
Being able to talk about sex with your partner is crucial for a good sex life and relationship.
Most of us have something we would like to let our partner know or ask our partner, but our partner is somehow not engaging with us. Talking about sex doesn’t always feel easy at the best of […]
A real account of what female ejaculation FEELS like
An “Eker’s” Story: 42 year old Janie talks about what it is like to female ejaculate
(read the “Gusher’s Story”)
I never knew I ejaculated, until I started to pay attention. I had only seen images where women “gushed” ejaculate all over the place. I knew I wasn’t […]