Welcome to the Arousal Test! 

Sexual Arousal

Do you know where your arousal comes from? Are you different from your partner?

Knowing your individual pattern of sexual arousal can provide you the necessary insight to tap into your arousal when you want it, and allow you to communicate your needs to your partner. Find out more about your partner too.  

Fill out this short survey (8 min) to get your Arousal Test Type result immediately.

Arousal Type Survey 1
  • Fill out this short survey to get your Arousal Test Type result immediately.

    This survey is confidential and should take approximately 8 min to complete. This survey is meant for entertainment purposes only.

    * By completing the survey you are agreeing to participate in furthering our understanding of human sexuality.

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  • Email*a valid email address
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  • My gender is:*
    Female
    Male
    Other
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  • My age is:*select your age
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  • My sexual orientation is:*
    Straight
    Gay
    Lesbian
    Bisexual
    Other
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  • My relationship status is:*
    Single
    In a relationship, not living together
    In a relationship, living together
    In a non-traditional relationship
    Other
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  • I have been in a relationship with my partner for:*
    Less than 6 months
    6 months - 1 year
    1 - 2 years
    2 - 10 years
    10 + years
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  • I would rate the general satisfaction of my relationship as:*
    Extremely satisfying
    More than satisfying
    Satisfying
    Somewhat unsatisfying
    Extremely unsatisfying
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  • Preferences
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  • 1*In order to feel turned-on, I am most likely to imagine ____________.
    the sensations of sex -- how it feels to touch, smell, taste
    how sexy I feel or how much my lover desires me
    a particular type of "hot" activity we are doing (or would like to do)
    connecting with my lover
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  • *My second choice is...
    the sensations of sex -- how it feels to touch, smell, taste
    how sexy I feel or how much my lover desires me
    a particular type of "hot" activity we are doing (or would like to do)
    connecting with my lover
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  • 2*If I had to choose the aspect that allows me to lose myself in a sexual experience the most, it would be:
    Being connected to my lover
    Surrendering to the senses
    Being able to think about (or do) a favorite "hot" act
    Knowing my lover desires me or thinks I'm sexy
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  • 3*The aspect most important for my arousal is: (Choose the one the applies to you the most)
    Once I know I am loved and valued, then I can feel arousal.
    Once I feel desired and sexy, then I can feel arousal.
    Once my mind is properly stimulated with sexy thoughts, then I can feel arousal.
    Once I know my surroundings are free of distraction and sexy, then I can feel arousal.
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  • 4*I am preparing for my ideal sexual encounter with a lover, the situation that would help me to feel the most turned on would be:(Choose your top 2)
    Preparing the room with sexy ambiance -- candles, scents, music, etc.
    Dressing up in my favorite clothes to look "HOT"
    Planning my favorite fantasy / act
    Preparing a celebration for me and my lover that enhances our intimacy
    Making or buying my lover a gift that we share together
    Watching my favorite porn scene
    Shaving, using cologne/perfume or getting a manicure etc. to enhance my sexiness
    Preparing sensual props that encourage caressing (massage, feathers,etc)
    Planning a sexual adventure
    Giving my lover sexy clothing
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  • 5. The sense I am most aware of during sex is:*
    listening or hearing the sounds of sex
    watching or seeing sex
    touching or the sensations of sex
    smelling the aromas of sex
    tasting the tastes of sex
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  • 6. The thing that turns me on the most about sex is _______*Most times or alwaysSometimesRarely or Never
    what I'll be doing
    who I'll be doing it with
    that I feel desired
    the sensations of the body
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  • 7. When I'm already feeling "turned on," the thing that will turn me off most easily is:*(Choose your top 3)
    not being appreciated by my lover
    being in an environment that isn't sexy
    feeling disconnected from my lover
    doing too much of the same thing
    being ignored or criticized
    when my lover won't take enough control
    when my lover takes too much control
    feeling pressured to do things
    when sex goes on too long
    when my lover doesn't get (or take) my cues
    when my lover is not interested in the sexual acts I like
    being rushed or not taking enough time
    Other
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  • 8. The type of touch I would like to experience more often during sex is:*(Choose the type of touch you would like to include more in your sex life)
    More gentle touch
    More moderate touch
    More firm touch
    More intense touch
    More touch in general, it doesn't matter which kind
    No touch at all
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  • 9. The form of touch I find most sexually arousing is:*(Choose the type of touch you would like to include more in your sex life)
    Full-body touch 100% of the time
    Full-body touch 75% of the time, with focused- touch to specific areas 25% of the time
    An equal mixture of full-body touch and focused-touch to specific areas (50%-50%)
    Focused-touch on specific areas 75% of the time, full-body touch 25% of the time
    Focused-touch on specific areas 100% of the time
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  • 10. When I am looking forward to sex, what I am looking looking forward to the most is:*(Choose your top 2)
    To enjoy the sensations of my body
    To be close to my lover
    To reach orgasm
    To ride the wave of arousal
    To please my lover
    To know my lover is aroused by me
    To feel in-synch with my lover
    To experience a particularly hot act
    To have an adventure
    To feel desired
    To feel sexy
    I don't look forward to sex
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  • 11. The pace of sex I find most arousing is:*(Choose the pace you would like to include more in your sex life)
    Fast all of the time
    Fast most of the time, slow ocassionally
    Fast half of the time, slow half of the time
    Slow most of the time, fast ocassionally
    Slow all of the time
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  • 12. The activities that turn me on the most "to imagine" are:*Choose your top 3
    Kissing
    Massage
    Dry humping
    Oral - cunnilingus
    Oral - fellatio
    Oral - rimming
    Vaginal intercourse
    Anal play
    Anal intercourse
    Threesome - MMF
    Threesome - FFM
    Threesome - MMM
    Threesome - FFF
    Group sex
    New locations
    Role play
    Discipline - spanking,
    Bondage
    Being submissive
    Being dominant
    Sex toys
    Exhibitionism
    Voyeurism
    Fetish play
    Other
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  • 13. The activities that turn me on the most "to do" are:*Choose your top 3
    Kissing
    Massage
    Dry humping
    Oral - cunnilingus
    Oral - fellatio
    Oral - rimming
    Vaginal intercourse
    Anal play
    Anal intercourse
    Threesome - MMF
    Threesome - MMM
    Threesome - FFM
    Threesome - FFF
    Group sex
    New locations
    Role play
    Discipline - spanking, flogging,etc
    Bondage
    Being submissive
    Being dominant
    Sex toys
    Exhibitionism
    Voyeurism
    Fetish
    Other
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  • 14. I get most turned on when:*
    my lover initiates sex every time
    my lover initiates sex most times and I initiate rarely
    my lover and I both initiate sex equally
    I initiate sex most times, and my partner initiates rarely
    I initiate sex every time
    It doesn't matter to me
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  • My favorite way my lover can initiate sex with me is:*Describe how would be the best way to approach you for sex.
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  • 15. Which props do you find most arousing to bring into a sexual scenario?*Choose max of 3
    Dildos – for penetration
    Clitoral Vibrators
    Sensual massage oils and candles
    Blindfolds
    Restraints
    Paddles and spankers
    Anal toys
    Cock-rings or penis pumps
    Sex furniture
    Fetish gear / sexy clothing
    Porn or other visual aids
    Erotica
    Couples toys (i.e. remote toys,vibrating cock-ring, etc)
    None
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  • 16. I get most turned on in a sexual situation when:*"Taking control" in a sexual situation can be subtle, including initiating sex, introducing activities or changing positions, or more overt, such as using restraints or dom-sub roleplay
    my lover takes control most or every time
    my lover takes control more than I do, but not every time
    when my lover and I take turns being in control
    when I take control more than my lover, but not every time
    when I take control most or every time
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  • 17. In order to feel "turned on," it is important that my environment be:*
    sensual and erotic all of the time
    sensual and erotic most of the time
    sensual and erotic half of the time
    sensual and erotic less than half of the time
    my environment doesn't matter for my arousal
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  • 18. When I think of my hottest sexual experience, from start to finish it would last:*
    more than 2 hours
    1 - 2 hours
    40 - 60 min
    20 - 40 min
    5 - 20 min
    less than 5 min
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  • 19. During sex, I find the best way to communicate my sexual needs and desires is with:*
    clear verbal communication
    non-verbal communication that uses mostly touch
    non-verbal communication that uses mostly eye contact
    non-verbal communication, where the person just knows what to do
    non-verbal vocalizations and gestures (moaning or pulling away)
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  • 20. My body is ___________________sensitive to being tickled:*
    Extremely (most touch feels ticklish)
    Fairly (many parts feel ticklish)
    Somewhat (only on a few parts feel ticklish)
    Not particularly (only under very particular circumstances)
    Not at all
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  • 21. How sexy my lover dresses is:*Dressing
    The single biggest turn-on
    A strong turn-on
    A moderate turn-on
    A mild turn-on
    Not a factor in how turned on I get
    A turn off
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  • 22. I prefer to be sexual:*
    with a partner every time
    with a partner most times and on my own occasionally
    with a partner half of the time and on my own half of the time
    on my own most of the time and with a partner occasionally
    on my own every time
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  • Sexual opinions*Choose the statement(s) that you agree with or that apply to you. (select all that apply).
    Watching porn helps me get into a lustful mood
    My biggest turn-on is knowng my partner really is enjoying the sex
    Sex loses value if I don't have an orgasm.
    If my lover doesn't think I'm sexy, I can't enjoy sex.
    Sexuality is all about feeling emotionally attached; if that doesn't happen it's not good sex.
    Touch is the most important part of sex; without a lot of touch sex is meaningless.
    It is important to look good to feel sexual.
    A sexy environment is crucial to feel sexual.
    When my lover dresses sexy for me I feel like they want me.
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  • Overall, how satisfactory or unsatisfactory is your present sex life?*
    Completely satisfactory
    Very satisfactory
    Reasonable satisfactory
    Not very satisfactory
    Not at all satisfactory
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