Sex-Talk Initiation Style

Inside the head of the Initiation Style: Sex-Talk

(* While each person has a complex mix of preferences, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

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Sex-Talk Sexual Initiation Style

The Sex-Talk Initiation Type connects to their sexual arousal with words. But not every word, only words that are sexual in content. Engaging in sexy or dirty talk is the primary driver of your arousal. Sex-Talk allows this type to be fully engaged into their sexuality. Through a detailed description of what they would like to do or what they see, it is the description of the acts that helps them to connect with their partner.

One of the main pleasures for the Sex-Talk Initiation Type is sharing the ‘ideas’ of sex with a partner, what they would like to do or look at, what they could do in fantasy or reality, or what they have done that really turned them on.

Favorite sexual starter: Sharing their most exciting sexual moments with a partner — either listening or describing.
Partners: The ideal partner of a Sex-Talk Initiation Type relishes in the idea of exchanging sexual thoughts and ideas.
Turn-offs: A typical turn-off for this type would be to be a silent or judgemental lover, someone who is unable to share in the experience of sexual words.

The Sex-Talk Initiation Type craves the connection through sexual words. The Sex-Talk Type’s erotic energy is focused on accessing their arousal through sexual ideas and communication. They can be happy doing many sexual acts, or being in different environments, so long as they are connecting with words.

Are you or your partner the Sex-Talk Initiation Type? Find out with the SISA quiz

How to have great sex with the Sex-Talk Initiation Type?

Tips on how to have great sex with the Sex-Talk Type: Your partner needs to feel connected (or the potential to be connected) to feel an erotic charge.Get creative, get descriptive. Share the minute detail of how they feel, what you find sexy or a favorite fantasy. Judgement or silence is a sure-fire way to turn this type off.

Suggestions to get the Sex-Talk Initiation Type turned-on:

Tease them with seductive language
Talk dirty to to them (eg. describe in detail a past experience you enjoyed with that lover, a common fantasy or what turns you on about them)
Tell them the things you want to do to them
Send them a sexy message
Tell them how sexy they are or how much you desire them
‘Asks’ them what they would like done to them.