Primary Sensualist

(While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)

The sensualist is the ’embodiment’ of sex. You derive most of your erotic arousal from the senses.  The physical sensations and “feel” of sex is more important than for the other types.  Touch, smell and taste are what gives the sensualist an erotic charge.

This may seem obvious to you.  “Isn’t all sex about the feelings and the touch?”, is a common comment from a Sensualist. Not really! While most people have sex because it “feels good,” it is not the primary component of what drives arousal in the other types.

Physical sensation — both feeling your own sensations and sensing your partner — is the key to your arousal.

The Sensualist Type looks inward to the body to connect with their sexual arousal. Physical sensation, both from their own sensations and the sensations of their partner, is key to the Sensualist Type’s arousal.  They value being in the moment, “what I feel right now” is their motto.

Your eroticism comes to life when you can focus on the here-and-now. What is tangible and real — what can be touched, sensed, felt in some way — is critical to your experience.

• Sexual style: Your arousal builds best at a slow, unhurried pace.
• Favorite sexual starter: A sensual massage
• Partners: The ideal partner of a sensualist is one who respects the slow pace and non-goal-oriented touch.
• Turn-offs: A typical turn-off to a sensualist is a rushed pace or non-sensual environment.

 Are you partnered with a Sensualist?

What are the tools for a Sensualist?

These are products recommended for you or your partner to enhance the arousal and orgasm potential of a Sensualist Type. Look for beauty and sensuality in your toy.

1. Look for beauty and sensuality in your sex toys.

2. Focus the Senses

Enhance your sense of touch, by withholding sight with a silky blindfold.

3. Enhance the Senses  

Sensitize the skin to with sensual, warm massage oil.  Add to the ambiance with light and bring in the sense of taste.

Ambiance Massage Oil Candle
Find Massage Candle in: United States:  Ambiance Massage Candle

Poeme Chocolate Body Paint:
An indulgence of the senses, deliciously combining scent, taste and touch with the sensual.
Find Poeme Chocolate Body Paint in the US: Poeme Chocolate Paint

Body Dust and Feather
Find Sensual Feather in: United States: Sexy Feather

For a more in-depth analysis of your (and your partners) Arousal Type, and how they fit together, email Dr. Petra Zebroff at info@artofconnection.or

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