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The survey seems to generalized to me. I feel suffocated when men are romantic but I find rough sex physically uncomfortable. I like thinking really weird degrading thoughts and having a ton of clitoral stimulation. I get aroused if the wind blows the wrong way or when I get bored my mind wanders.
i just discovered you…I’m middle-aged,post-menopause…my libido increased after menopause.There is a wide misconception that women just fold (or begin to fold) after 50 yrs. Health, exercise, hormonal balance, self-image, lifelong attitudes about sex,etc…and, for me, a strong libido always…discovered masturbation at 13 yrs. old….an, prior to this, dreams where I’d slide down a banister and have an orgasm…it would wake me up. Healthy attitudes and education were provided by my French, R.N. mother. Hot flashes lowered my desire for a while, but chinese and western herbs helped rebalance. And the whole issue about vaginas and how they’re supposed to dry up and shrivel ……dryness just needs some estrogen cream inserted…a prescription from your GYN…insert once a week…It worked in three days after first app. My point…and I don’t know if you’ve written about this…is the distorted info about women once they’ve gone through menopause…I look younger than 55 yrs…5’2 and a half, 117 lbs, no grey air yet (genetic), stomach toned, body still together …but, ALLl women, if they maintain health and exercise, organic, nourishing food…etc.etc. can maintain desire, arousal, orgasmic functionI….into later years
Things I don’t like that men do during sex is ask ratcoriehl questions. Yes you all know the QUESTIONS such as You want this dick or Does it feel good ? It’s like dude if I didn’t want it I wouldn’t be here. Oh & if it’s not good you would know without having to ask!
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One of the difficulties in dscsuising womene28099s sexual experiences is that people often talk about whether a woman e28098enjoyse28099 sex. This can mean many things.I am talking specifically about orgasm. Not the experience that many women think they have simply from having sex with a man but a real orgasm.My point is that men do not orgasm by NOT touching their genitals. Also, much more importantly, men do NOT orgasm by thinking about mushy loving emotions.Men have to think about something fairly gutsy, crude, sexual, erotic e28093 as evidenced by male pornography. The problem is that many people assume that female orgasm revolves around womene28099s loving emotions. The Snow White syndrome My point is that since women use sexual fantasies during masturbation, they are likely to need to use something similar during sex. Men have the advantage of becoming sexually aroused (so that genital stimulation leads easily to orgasm) through the sight/touch of a lovere28099s body.Women do not have the same advantage so they have to use some other mechanism for arousal during sex. This is not about attitude but about understanding what causes female arousal (the kind that leads to orgasm through genital stimulation).Many women say that they enjoy’ sex but they never explore their own sexual arousal through masturbation and are shocked by any form of eroticism. I am asking how a person can achieve sexual arousal without their mind being focused on erotic thoughts. It’s not possible as men should know. The trouble is that men’s minds focus much more naturally and frequently on erotic thoughts so they assume that women’s minds work the same way.