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How to initiate sex with your partner: Practical tips from a sex therapist.

Maybe she doesn’t want to be kissed first!
How to initiate sex with your partner: Practical sexual initiation tips from a sex therapist.

Your initiation style worked on the last partner. And maybe it even used to work on this partner when you first together. But now you are getting rejected more than you are accepted. […]

No-orgasm sex (no-pressure sex) The benefit of removing the goal of orgasm.

No orgasm sex, as a goal!  “What’s the point?” is the question I will get when I first mention this as an exercise.  This is only for 30 min, and you can do whatever you like at minute 31, is my response.

This challenge started with the 30-min oral sex challenge I started using in […]

Waiting for your partner to “take charge” in bed

Why can’t my partner just “take charge” in bed?

This is the question too many women (and men) ask when they come looking for help to improve their sagging sex lives.  The first step is to fully understand what they mean by “taking charge.”  After a bit of probing this phrase is often a common […]

By |February 1st, 2017|Uncategorized|0 Comments

The 5 most common reasons couples argue about sex

1. Sex is too infrequent
How often is by far the most common reason couples argue about sex. Whether there is a desire for more or for less, this issue usually comes along with blaming your partner for the difference in desire. Most people have an idea of what they consider is the “normal” or […]

By |September 19th, 2015|Uncategorized|0 Comments

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By |September 11th, 2015|Uncategorized|0 Comments

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Your answers are completely private and confidential and are only used only to understand how to improve the experience of the sexual contract, or to join a team […]

By |August 28th, 2015|Uncategorized|0 Comments


On a regular basis I am asked to recommend a store that I trust for the best tools for our sex lives.

If you are in Vancouver, BC and are looking for immediate gratification I recommend, The Art of Loving.  All my clients get a discount.  Contact me if you would like to indulge.

For those […]

By |August 24th, 2015|Uncategorized|0 Comments

The Dangers of NOT Talking to Your Partner About Sex

What disastrous strategy are couples using for sex? Silence. And this self-imposed hush around “our sex life” is keeping us from getting what we want sexually and is distancing us from our partners.

Carrie and John started out hot and heavy, spending hours touching and talking. Every graze of skin felt arousing. But ever since […]

High Sexual Desire: Predictors of high desire in women and men

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Sexual Desire: Factors associated with high sexual desire in women and men.

Dr. Petra Zebroff

Low sexual desire is a common complaint for many men and women, especially in long-term relationships. Low desire in women has become of particular focus with low desire reported more in women than men.  This survey focused on women (and […]

Slow sex and fast sex

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The Pace of Sex: Individual preferences for the frequency of Faster vs. Slower sexual behavior

Petra Zebroff

The pace of sex is one component of the sexual experience vital in building sexual arousal and for reaching orgasm.  Controlling the speed of thrusting (in intercourse) has been found to increase orgasm potential in women, aid in […]

By |June 1st, 2015|slow sex|0 Comments